Monday, December 29, 2008
MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR
After dinner I left their house, and went with Fo Dela to church service. It was suppose to start at 7 and I'm pretty sure it was about 8:30 when we actually started. No, no... we weren't misinformed of the time, but in the village if someone says 5 that translates to 5:30 or 6. So basically I think that I've been reunited with my people (lol). Joking, but I always tell Dela that being on time is not my thing either.
Christmas morning I woke up and I cooked 4 loaves of bread worth of french toast for some of the people in the village. Mary and Eunice helped me (they are the two woman that cook for me). Everyone really liked it a lot, so I was happy. Cause, dang that would have been bad if I served all those people some food that they thought was nasty. After I cooked, we went to church for Christmas service. One thing about the church I go to is that they be jammin! They have the drums and some other instruments and it just moves your spirit. It's really nice.
After praising the Lord, me and Fo Dela went around and greeted a lot of people just wishing them a Merry Christmas. One of the preachers in the village invited us to come eat dinner with him and his family so we went over there and ate. We had rice with pepper sauce, beans, and something similar to coleslaw. They kept insisting "eat more, eat more" so I was so full when I left. I also talked to my family on Christmas and it was so nice to here everyones' voice and it put a BIG smile on my face. (Love you family!!) So that was Christmas in the villlage. Everyone cooks and eats and shares with their family and neighbors. No gifts, no Santa Clause, just unity and celebration of Christ's birth.
On Friday and Saturday, our bible study group fasted from 6 am to 12pm (not so much fasting but kinda). During this time, we went to the church to sing, pray, and also hear the Word preached. At first I didn't really want to do it, cause I was like "I went to church Monday Wednesday and Thursday" and I just felt like it was overload, but when I completed the fasting I was really happy I had gone and done it. It was long but it was really powerful. So that was Friday and Saturday.
Sunday, was voting day. They had to do a second vote because none of the parties had 50% + 1. Fo Dela didn't even try and get out of it this time cause he knows I would lecture him (lol). So, today we are just waiting for the results to come to see who will be the next President.
Okay my people, I'm out of words. I hope that everyone has a safe and fun New Year's. Whatever changes you need to make in your life, let 2009 be the year to do it. Don't wait, don't resitate, live your life to it's full potential and with no regrets. So until next year, peace and love.
Monday, December 22, 2008
My Birthday week... Amazing!
The next day I woke up at dawn to run my 3 miles. So far i'm sticking to my goal of doing it every other day. After running and eating breakfast we went to the church to help lay cement. Everyone thinks it's so funny but so great to see me joining in the work. I was carrying sand and rock and water on my head from point A to point B. I'm actually getting pretty good at not spilling anything and I can almost balance the big bucket using no hands. The men shoveling the sand and rocks into my bucket kept trying to put just a little in the bucket and I kept telling them "do you think I'm weak? Put the same amount as the other woman have." They just laughed. Fo Dela kept saying "are you okay?" I was like "I'm fine, my dad had me doing this manual labor stuff my whole life" (lol) Although I complained the majority of the time but thanks dad for preparing me for life in the village.
So Friday was the last day of school for everyone in the village, so the high school threw this community event in the evening. I would say half the H.S. students are above 18, and the reason is because in Ghana you have to pay to go to High School and most families can't afford to send their children so they go when they are adults and can pay on their own way. Anyways, so the H.S. students walked from the begging of our village to the end and back to the Primary School's campus (probably a mile and a half total) singing Christmas songs and playing the drums. Everyone from the village came and met at the campus and their was dancing and singing and drumming the first half. Then for the second half some students read bible verses and then their was a few people from the village (mostly teachers) that gave speeches. Oh, don't worry I was informed about 10 minutes before, that I would be giving the closing speech to the community (200-300 people) on the importance of education. Not only do I fear public speaking more than ANYTHING!! But to make the situation even more horrifying was the fact I had 10 minutes to prepare a speech in my head. I was thinking how am I gonna get out of this one. Finally I realized that I wasn't so that I might as well take a deep breath, pray, and go make a fool of myself. I don't really remember what I said, I just kinda went up to the microphone and opened my mouth and then after a few minutes when no words came out anymore, I said "that's all". It was definitely the most horrifying public speaking I've ever had to do, but maybe it will help me get over my fear.
Then Saturday morning after our 3 mile run, Fo Dela had me go to his farm to help him harvest. I told him on the way there that I know God does everything with a purpose and I'm really happy that he made me a city woman and not a farm woman. He was laughing so hard. When we got to the farm he was like "come on city woman". I don't really know how much help I was to him, I just followed him around the corn field holding the bucket as he picked all the corn. Farming... definitely not my thing.
Okay so that was pretty much my birthday week. Now that it's Christmas week I'm preparing for that. Instead of buying everyone individual gifts, I'm getting some bread and eggs today, and on Christmas morning I'm going to cook French toast for like 20 people. They liked it a lot last time Sarah and I made it, and it's simple enough so that's my plan. Wish me luck getting the eggs all home in one piece (I'm carrying them in my back pack, riding bike from the town to the village.)
Well, Merry Christmas everyone!!! I hope you all enjoy the holiday with the ones you love. Even though I will be absent from my family this year, I feel so blessed to be celebrating it with people who I adore and love so much. Be safe and much love and peace to everyone. Love ya!
Monday, December 15, 2008
So tomorrow is the big day! lol. You know I like to think of my B-day as the biggest day of the year. I'm kidding (kind of). But all that I've planned is having some people in the village come over for cake. I found cake, probably the most expensive birthday cake ever, but I have to have a cake and somewhat of a celebration. I even managed to find birthday candles that were also very expensive but whatever. So that's my BIG plans.
I forgot to mention in my last blog that my committee and I passed out 300 new uniforms and shoes some of the orphans in our community last Friday. They do this every 2 years so I just happened to come at the perfect time. It was really nice to see all the kids recieve these uniforms and shoes cause for them it means they are able to continue going to school. My main mission while I'm here in Ghana is finding funders for this committee so that they can continue with this project, expand on this project, and create new projects. There are so many children that aren't in school here either because they don't have money for uniforms (which are manditory) or they don't have the money to pay school fees. So I'm really going to try my hardest to do all that I can. If you have any ideas please shoot me an email and let me know. The committee I'm working with is wonderful and they are really trying hard to give kids from their community a chance to have an education and to have an opportunity. I pray almost everyday that God gives me the tools that I need and the wisdom I need to make some sort of impact while I'm here. So that's were i'm at in terms of my work here.
The election here in Ghana ended up being a run off, so come December 28th there will be a second vote. But everything seemed to be quite peaceful so I'm thankful for that.
My Ewe is getting better each day. The people in the village love that i'm learning their language.
I've been waking up every other morning at dawn (5:30) for a 3 mile jog with Fo Dela. It was my idea but he seemed to be happy I suggested it. You know I got to get my workout on.
Oh, I almost forgot... On Friday at my committee meeting, they told me to come to the church the following day at 4pm. They said it was a suprise. So when I arrived they were there to give me a welcome ceremony. It was a bit of a late welcome ceremony but it was really nice and thoughtful. They presented me with a bracelet with beads made in the village I live. They prayed over the beads and tied it on my wrist for me. And then they just spoke a few words of thank you to me, and I gave a small thank you speech as well. It was really sweet.
I can't really think if there is anything else I should tell you but I'll be here in town again Thursday so if I left out anything I'll add it then.
Happy Holidays everyone. Celebrate life, and appreciate all that you have. When you think that you're day is going bad, remember all that is going right. Each day wake up and be thankful to see another day. I'm out.
Monday, December 8, 2008
Traveling in Ghana
December 5th, 2008
It doesn't seem like I've been in
But anyways... We went to the slave castle in
On Monday we went to the ocean in
December 7th, 2008
Today I went to a funeral with Dela. It’s kinda similar to one in the
Also, today was voting day. It was exciting to be here during their election, just to see how it's done in other countries. One thing I thought was real nice is that last night our village had a gathering at sun down. It was to pray for a safe election. It was probably between 200 and 300 people there and it was just really nice to see community coming together like that even though they weren't all voting for the same party. Dela almost didn't vote, but after I lectured him several times, he finally decided to go and rock the vote!
Each day I'm seeing new things, observing, and learning. The conversations I have with people everyday are helping me to broaden my thoughts and how I see the world. The relationships I am making are allowing me to embrace and love people that much more. I feel myself transforming into a stronger person and a better person and I know that this is all part of God's plan for me.
Thursday, November 27, 2008
Happy Thanksgiving!
November 25th, 2008
Monday, November 24, 2008
A day in the life of a Ghanian
November 20th, 2008
Things that I've seen in Ghana that I've never seen before:
· People walking down the main roads with machetes in their hand and nobody scared for their life.
· People asking the tro-tro driver to stop so they can squat real quick, in viewing distance for all to see.
· Numerous of exposed breasts (old women walking around with them saggin low or a nursing mother whippin out a nipple for her child to eat from anywhere, anytime).
· Goats stealing children's afternoon snacks (peanuts), resulting in the child chasing them with a stick shouting in Ewe.
· Riding in public transportation with living chickens sitting in the back and goats tied to the roof.
· A man selling aloe lotion, a toothbrush, a new testiment bible (purse size), matches, a pen, and a pencil all in one package deal for one Ghana Cedi (close to $1.00 in America), and people taking him serious; not looking at him like he's a crack head...
Hello all! I'm loving Ghana, and I wanted to share with you a list of things that I've seen that I find to be humorous in comparison to our American living. So that is the reason for the list.
Anyway...yesterday was a fun but long day. We went to Vli Falls which is a waterfall like 3 hours away from our village but worth the trip. Oh, and 'we' meaning me, Sarah, and Dela. We took a Tro-Tro into town. I don't know if you ever get use to the Tro-Tro. I was squished between people and sacks of coal. I felt like I might pass out from lack of air to breath and I also couldn't stop myself from thinking of what my escape plan would be if the tro-tro tipped over. The road is so bad and the tro-tro tips super far from the left to the right as it drives down the road. I just have to shut my eyes sometimes and think of happy thoughts lol. But when we got to Ho, we got on a 15 passenger van (the best 2 hours ever in a car seeing that I hadn't felt cold air for almost 2 weeks and it felt so good). When we got to the village, we had to take a cab to the Falls which was about another 20 or 30 minutes. Traveling here is tiring to say the least. After a small hike we were at the falls. It was so beautiful! The water was nice and cold so we wade in it for a while. It was pretty nasty though when Sarah pointed out the thousands of bats posted up high by the waterfall. But other than the bats being there it might have been the most beautiful place I've ever been.
When we got to Ho (the town that I come to once a week) it was dark out and we almost didn't catch a tro-tro back to the village. We ended up having to pay a cab driver 10 Cedis total (basically $10) to take us into the village. It really isn't a lot at all compared to the cost of a cab in the U.S. But here, the cabs to the village would normally be 1 cedi each. So after a long bumpy ride we made it home.
Today was my first time washing my clothes which I have to give these woman a lot of props for and anyone reading this blog that has ever had to do it. Washing by hand (in the hot sun) is no joke! The two ladies that cook all our food helped me wash my clothes and it seemed to take forever. I wish I could just wear the same thing for like a whole week so I didn't have to wash so much stuff but since there's dirt/sand everywhere and kids everywhere I get dirty so quick. So I guess I'll just be really good at washing by hand by the end of my time here.
After I washed my clothes, Me and Sarah cooked lunch for Dela and are caretakers Mary and Eunice. We cooked French Toast with honey and pineapple. We were going to make it for breakfast but we decided since we've been having to get up and do things somewhat early, that we would “sleep in” and make it for lunch instead. Oh yea and I love that the one day I have a chance to sleep in I wake up at 5:15 and couldn't fall back asleep. But anyways, the lunch was really good and they liked it a lot. The honey was made in the village by a bee farmer and it was amazing and the pineapple we bought at the market yesterday and it was also amazing and I might just buy them all the time seeing that they are like .20 cents.
So life in the village is good and more and more I have appreciation for things such as wash machines, safe public transportation, and toilets. If I don't post another blog before Thanksgiving I hope everyone enjoys the holiday and eats a little extra turkey, mash potatoes, stuffing, greens, corn, and pie, for me! And also I really love and appreciate all the comments from everyone. They really make me smile! Love ya all!
Monday, November 17, 2008
Mountain climbing in Ghana
November 15th, 2008
Life in the village
November 12th, 2008
Today is Wednesday and I'm a few days into my stay here. So far (and I say this with my fingers crossed that I'm not jinxing my luck) I have not gotten sick or home sick for that matter. Although yesterday my two caretakers Mary and Eunice thought that I was sick because I slept until 8am. Here in the village people fall asleep around 9pm and wake around 6am. But this morning I woke up around 6am, ate some breakfast (oatmeal) and me, the other volunteer Sarah, and Dela (our counterpart) rode bike into the town of Ho. It took us around 1 ½ hours to do this and was so exhausting, but I was happy to get my workout on. Plus, it was such a beautiful day and I just soaked it all in and felt so blessed to be where I am. When we got to town we went to the internet cafe, where I sat and wrote a posting for my blog and right as I was finishing up, the electricity went out. Sarah was like “Welcome to Ghana”. So I'm on my second attempt at writing this blog. We have a old ass computer in the village in Sarah's room so she said that I should just start typing out my blogs here, save them to a flash drive, and bring them with me to the internet cafe; so thats what I'm going to do from now on.
On Monday night Dela took me with him to his bible study. His group meets three times a week and he invited me to join them as much as I would like. It was really similar to any bible study I've ever been to with the exception it was in Ewe (the language spoken in this region). Dela did a good job translating for me so that I could understand the message being spoken.
Real quick I should probably give a brief description of Dela since I will be talking about him a lot throughout my stay here. Dela is my counterpart. All the volunteers that come to Ghana with Global Volunteer Network (the organization I am with) stay in a village surrounding the town of Ho, and in the village they are assigned a counterpart. This person's role is to teach them the language, the culture, introduce them to people, and go with them anywhere they would like to go or invite them places they are going. So Dela is basically my new best friend. He is a really great man of what I have came to know so far. He is 35, he has a wife and three children. He is originally from the village I am living and although he has traveled a lot throughout West Africa, he has resided here is entire live. At this time his wife and children stay in Ho, about 45 minutes away. This is so that his children can have a better education. The reason he stays in the village still is because that is where he is able to make the most money for his family. This scenario is not uncommon here. Many families are broken up to increase the wellbeing of everyone. He still sees his family about twice a week though...
Tuesday, I met with my committee. There are 6 members and they are all from the village I'm staying. They are called A.I.E.C. and they are in charge of getting donors to support the needs of orphans in the village so they are able to go to school. Right now they are sewing 300 school uniforms for orphans so that these children can continue their education. Here in the region I am staying and I think all of Ghana, if you don't have a uniform, you can't go to school. Also, after 6th grade, each student has to pay $150 a year to go to school. This might not seem like a lot to us, but to them this can be unfordable (especially if they have only 1 parent or no parents at all). So they also give scholarships to orphans to go to Junior High School and High School. I am going to be assisting this group by helping them write proposal letters to different businesses and organizations. My main goal while I am here is to get as much outside founding as possible so that more children in the 9 villages are able to attend school. I'm also going to be volunteering in the schools while I'm here. I don't know exactly what I will be doing yet, but it should be a good experience and help me a lot in what I want to do with my career.
Later on Tuesday night, after meeting my committee members, I was sitting on my porch playing with the children. The children come over everyday after school and play with me and Sarah until bed time. One boy that was over here had a horrible cut on his knee. It was full of dirt and the flies kept getting into it. So finally I went and got my First Aid kit and cleaned it and bandaged it up. He had the biggest smile on his face when I was finished. Next thing I knew, I had bandaged up 5 kids, and they all called me nurse Laura. It made me sad to see them running around with these cuts that were so easy to clean up yet were on the verge of infection. So I did what I could. I'm going to have to go buy some more ointment and bandages while I'm here cause they all want to come to me now when they have a cut.
The children here are so appreciative of the most simplest things. That same night I showed a bunch of the kids how to make paper airplanes and they were so entertained and so happy. They also are so excited whenever I pull out paper and pens so that they can practice writing and doing math problems . Its so interesting to see how the most simplest things make them happy. I love being around these children cause they have the warmest and brightest spirits.
So after a few days here, I am still loving it. It is so peaceful and everyone is so friendly. Living in a village is something that everyone should experience in their lives. It makes you realize how people should treat each other. It is so communal and everyone treat their neighbor like their brother or sister. They feed each others kids, they give each other warm greetings when they pass one another, and they live in harmony with one another. It is a beautiful thing.
Monday, November 10, 2008
I MADE IT TO THE VILLAGE!
The flight from Minneapolis to Amsterdam I sat next to a 400lb German man that didn't speak any English which is probably a good thing because I can get to talkin. So I just made sure not to drink a lot on that flight cause I was on the inside and I couldn't imagine making the fat man get up to let me out a bunch of times. So I slept a lot and watched a couple movies.
When I arrived in Amsterdam, I used the internet for a minutes and then found a chair that I slept on for 4 hours. That time difference had me so messed up. But when I woke up from my nap in Amsterdam I got some quiche and a latte and made my way to the gate.
On my way to Ghana, I sat next to a man that was originally from Ghana who was going back for a visit. He was real nice, gave me a bit of advice and assured me that the people would make me feel very at home. On my flight, half the plane was filled with Europeans headed to Ghana for vacation which I had no idea Accra was a tourist city. I spent my time on this flight sippin a little Chardonnay and watching "Sex in the City". I thought, I might as well enjoy this shit while I can.
So I got into Accra, went threw customs and got my bags. Then I stepped outside and was officially in Africa. There was tons of people outside holding up signs and it was overwhelming but thank God my man Joy was right there in the front. Joy is the man that picks all the volunteers up from the airport and brings them to their village. He is real cool and super nice. We took a cab to the hostel. And when we got to the hostel he gave me some time to settle in and then we went to grab some food. We walk to this restaurant in a hotel and the food on the menu was not at all African food. I order some shrimp fried rice as my first meal in Africa lol. But I can't lie, that shit was good.
So when I got back to the hostel, I was so ready to sleep. The hostel was... different then what i'm use to, but it worked. When I get a chance to post pictures I will. The funny thing is, as much as I was like "damn" in regards to the hostel, it seems like a 5 star now that I'm in the village. The hostel had a "shower" which I will describe like this. You open a old wooden door to a hole in the wall that is tiled. There is water that comes out of the wall on the right side, out of what you could maybe call a shower head but not really and then with a small step up there is the toilet. There is no wall, no curtain, just running water, which after my first bucket bath last night, it sounds like heaven.
After a wonderful nights rest I was ready to venture on. I woke up and Joy and I had breakfast downstairs in the hostel. We then took a cab to the bus station. The bus was small, and old with about 25 people crammed up in there. It was a long three hours and all I could think was I can NEVER EVER complain again about the greyhound or the megabus. When we got off the bus we waited at Joy's house for about 2 hours for a car to take us into the village. We sat and watch an old MTV VMA's dvd from about 3 years ago and ate bananas and peanuts. Oh yea, there is mad chickens and goats roaming freely here which the goats I can do the chickens scare me though. But back to my story.
We got in this car that was covered in red dust inside and out, which at that point I didn't understand. The driver looked at Joy and said "did you warn her about the road". And then they both chuckled. I was so clueless to what I was soon to encounter. When I say this road is bad..... THE ROAD IS BEYOND HORRIBLE!!! I thought more than once, I am going to die in this damn cab. Again, I will be posting pictures. But it's not until you have to drive on that road you can even imagine how bad it is. (oh, and it's definitely the road we take to come to the office, and it takes 45 minutes to an hour).
I arrived in the village in the afternoon. There is one other volunteer staying in my village (which I guess doesn't happen often). The crazy thing is she is from Bloomington,MN (5minutes from where I am from). She has been helping me get use to a lot of things, such as techniques to bucket bathing and knowing the language. Most the people in my village don't speak English so it is going to be essential that I learn Ewe. I only know to say "woezo" (welcome) and reply "yoo" (ok) and "Efoa" (how are you) and reply "edo" (fine). I have a lot to learn. I met a lot of the children yesterday. They are just too dang cute. There was also a funeral going on when I arrived, which with the way they do funerals, Friday the funeral starts and Sunday is the last day of "celebration" and they dance and drink all day. So this older lady came and got me and I was dancing with the people to the beats on the drums. It was fun and I just feel like I need to embrace each and every part of this journey when the opportunity arises.
After I danced, my caretaker Mary had prepared dinner for me and the other volunteer. We ate fish and rice. It wasn't bad. Then I took my first of many bucket baths outside in the bathing room (which is 4 walls about 5ft high, with a whole on the ground in the corner to let the water drain). Me and my counterpart Dela (a man from the village) walked down the road to meet the secretary of my committee. I am working with them to write proposals to get funding for uniforms for the orphans in the village. He was very nice. We sat and talked for a while about Ghana, America and Barrack Obama. They LOVE Barrack out here! When I was through talking to Francis (the secretary of the committee), me and Dela walked back. I have my own room here. Its nice. Has a bed, a fan, and a chair! Way more than expected. I slept good, and woke up to the morning sun at 6:30 am (no alarm clock).
This morning, I ate a good breakfast, egg sandwich and tea!! yum. Half of my committee came to greet me so I got to meet them and practice my greetings in Ewe. Then me, Dela, and Sara (the other volunteer) head into Ho. Mondays and Thursday are office days, so on these days we come into the town of Ho on "Hell Rd". We took a Tro-Tro, which is a van/land rover/the bumpiest ride ever. It's market day today, so everyone in the village was pushing and shoving to get on the tro-tro. It took us an hour of bumpy road to get into Ho. We made it and I met Bismark the head man of the organization "The Bridge". He gave me a brief but very informative orientation. I met a few of the other volunteers, one from Melbourne and one from New York. And then I came downstairs to the internet cafe to update my blog. And after typing this much I'll leave a closing reflection and be done.
Life in Africa is so different then America, yet so beautiful. I think the fact the people in my village are so happy yet have so little is a beautiful thing and it makes you realize that having everything is nothing. I can't wait to learn the language more so that I can make relationships with the people in my village. I also want to volunteer in one of the schools while i'm here. The kids were already using some of my pens and paper to write words and you can tell they have a passion for learning. The people here are going to teach me so much and I can't wait. I already love it here and know that this is where God wants me to be.